Thursday, July 23, 2009

Creation & the Fall


In the beginning....

everything has its being in the sovereign God.

Why did God look at the physical creation and call it good?
What is the basis of this goodness?

God was anticipating how you and I would enjoy all the handiwork He made, all in perfect proportion to mankind, to whom God has given a very special charge.

The intolerable compliment

The beginning of a long and growing relationship between the heavenly Father and his children is anticipated. The dominant theme of this relationship is God's love.

The relationship between the Creator and creature. Our life is at every moment supplied by Him. He has paid us the intolerable compliment of loving us in the deepest, most tragic, most inexorable sense.

The more love there is, the more we are bothered to be loved. But God loves us and really wants us to change for the better.

The Fall

God created things which had free will. Freedom to choose or to reject. To love is the most free thing we can do. The entry to the inner sanctum of our heart is entirely ours to give or withhold. One who seeks genuine love must allow the other person the option of rejection. If there is no way to reject someone, then there is no way to love that person either. Any love under such circumstances would be illusory.
Love=Freedom

The choice to reject

Many people have misconstrued that the forbidden fruit was a kind of trap which God designed for the downfall of mankind. In fact, every significant relationship has its own built in forbidden fruit. E.g.
Husband and wife ~ adultery
Friends ~ disloyalty


These prohibitions define each relationship, provide boundary lines which the relationship can achieve beauty and provide security. Without theses, the relationship will lose their meaning and significance in our lives.

To reject someone who has a relationship with you is one of the most hurtful things that can be done. That is why any form of betrayal(a weapon only in the hands of those you love) hurts so much.

Essence of sin
The "I" problem. Which is also called pride.
Adam and Eve, they decided to serve themselves and not God. Sin is the inner desire to rule over self and play "God" in our lives.

The denial of our relationship with God is the essence of sin.

Life without God
As a result of the first sin, death entered into human life and is an inevitable reality. Death is the only unconquerable enemy of mankind but also causes us to see with greater clarity the proper priorities of life.

"You cannot understand the meaning of life so do not think about it, but live,I can no longer do it; I have already done it too long. I cannot now help seeing day and night bringing me to death. That is all I see, for that alone is true. All else is false (Leo Tolstoy).

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p.s. life is beautiful

Wednesday, July 22, 2009

The other woman

I know that love isn't enough. That you have to cherish the people you love, that saying I love you isn't ever enough, that you have to show that love each and every day, even when life threatens to get in the way.

The greatest weakness of most humans is their hesitancy to tell others how much they love them while they are alive.

pg 115, The Other Woman (Jane Green)

p.s. honor awaits the heart that is true to itself

Saturday, July 11, 2009

Perhaps Love ( 如果爱)

Life is like a film
Everyone of us plays the leading role in our own film
Some others might assume that they play the co-leading role in someone else's film
But in fact, they merely play a supporting role or a small part
Or worse, their scenes could have been taken out during editing
He/she just doesn't know it yet
Like a mother and her daughter
The little girl would certainly be the lead in her mother's film
Yet in 10 years, how important would the role of the mother be in her daughter's film?
It would be beautiful if someone is responsible for keeping track on those deleted footages
To make sure they are intact
Because people do make mistakes while editing
When they realize that they made the wrong cuts
Then the deleted footages could be delivered back to them

~ taken from the movie Perhaps Love, in the process some of the lines were modified to balance my thoughts

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0454914/

p.s. love is like the wind, you can't see it but you can feel it